A workbook for two

Polyamory works better when both of you have actually had the conversation.

Fill out the workbook on your own. Invite a partner to do the same. We’ll show you where you agree, where you disagree, and the things neither of you has brought up yet.

Where to start

A note on privacy

The questions in this workbook are personal. Your answers are scoped to your account.

A partner can only see your answers in the comparison view after both of you have submitted — we never reveal one side’s answers to the other before that, so neither of you anchors to the other.