A workbook for designing your relationship
Polyamory works better when both of you have actually had the conversation.
Fill out the workbook on your own. Invite a partner to do the same. We’ll show you where you agree, where you disagree, and the things neither of you have brought up yet.
Models
What polyamory, open relationships, anarchy, and swinging actually mean.
Glossary
Anchor, satellite, comet, kitchen-table, parallel, V… with examples.
Scenarios
‘What would you do if…’ situations to anchor your intuition.
Workbook
The fillable workbook itself. Auto-saves; share with a partner when you submit.
A note on privacy
The questions in this workbook are personal. Your answers are scoped to your account. A partner can only see your answers in the comparison view after both of you have submitted — we never reveal one side’s answers to the other before that, so neither of you anchors to the other.