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A short on-ramp before the workbook

The workbook is direct — it asks pointed questions about how you want to share time, sex, money, and attention. These four pages give you the vocabulary and the concrete scenarios to make those questions answerable.

  1. 1. Relationship models

    What polyamory, open relationships, relationship anarchy, and swinging actually mean — and why labels are less important than agreements.

  2. 2. Glossary

    The vocabulary the workbook uses. Anchor, satellite, comet, kitchen-table, parallel — each one names a real distinction worth knowing.

  3. 3. Scenarios

    Concrete 'what would you do if…' situations to anchor your intuition before answering the abstract workbook questions.

  4. 4. Workbook

    The fillable workbook itself. Answer at your own pace, save as you go, share with a partner when you're both ready.

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